There is a music troup named ‘Secret Garden’. I used to like their songs in the past, I loved them, good music.
You maybe wondering why I talk about music here.
I am not talking about music. I am talking about the very thing ‘Secret Garden’. Its a wonderful thing and humans are fascinated by it all the time. How wonderful ‘Secret Garden’ can be. Without any stress, without any pain, without any hassle, just relax in the garden with absolutely no disturbance. Life in ‘Secret Garden’ will be awesome. This is the concept of very heaven. Heaven is picturised as a garden. Garden without any troubles, worries, needs, responsibilities… only provide joy and joy and joy…
But what is the world we now live in?
Is this a secret garden? Or the opposite of it?
Unfortunately the world we live in is not a secret garden, Simply its not.
Here you see people with filth, greed, envy, back-stab… all the COOL things are here. I am not telling everybody are like this, but there are quite good percentage of people who dont mind hurting others, a good number of people who are just mad so they give sorrow to others, there are terrorists, racists… all kinds of people.
So secret garden is not possible in this world. But many does not accept this reality. What they need is secret garden, and of-course they have a secret garden, the ‘Porn room’. Just provide joy, joy and joy…
Porn addicts are addicted to comfort too. They’ll never go out from their comfort zones, they avoid people who are a little challenging to them. A little uncomfortable to them… they do the work as boss say and go to home immediately after the work and stick the head into porn. They just don't take challenges, because challenges are not secret garden.
In ‘Porn room’, nobody come to disturb them. They are just in ecstacy in that secret garden, and what they need is repetition. Humans tend to like joy and avoid sorrow. All the time they like to stay in secret garden than going out to see the hell. By and by the person lose interest to go to work, lose competitiveness. Even ability to do normal things other people do, they just love their secret garden more and more.
The secret garden actually ruin their lives slowly until they start losing valuable things by it. Each day pass, they dig into it more. More into porn room, Making hard to climb up. Hard to quit porn addiction.
To overcome this, one should understand a fact, “Secret garden is just not possible in this present reality. Whatever one is, One must learn to deal with insanity”.
Yes. Life contain lots of things you may not like, whoever you are (President or beggar), you should learn to deal with it, there is no escape.
Don’t avoid the problems, don't even think about avoiding problems, but learn to deal with it. deal it in its best possible way. Each time you deal with a problem, you get strong. You should make this as a habit, deal with problems and solve it. Solve it ‘for the good of all’. Not just for you. Take time, work hard, solve your problems one by one, as life goes;you get more and more problems, you solve more and more problems, you become stronger and stronger. This give you certain joy, overcoming challenges give you certain joy. Enjoy it and grow up.
Accept the way world is. To live in this world, you should be a master of dealing with insanity, Insanity come to you, you make it sane. At least you’ll make sure you don't get insane by it.
It needs great strength of character. Build it.
Its much wiser than ‘Secret Garden’. It increase your value with time.
So from now onwards, instead of going to your own ‘Secret Garden’, think about meeting a challenge. By and by you become strong.
Life will be different when become strong.
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Accept Insanity as is, Deal with Challenges to Quit Porn Addiction
